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Identity
2026-07-31 · 6 min read
The Foolishness of Comparison: Why You Must Stop Measuring Your Progress Against Another Man's Starting Line
Why you must stop measuring your progress against another man's starting line. Understanding hidden advantages, minus vs. plus starting points, and running your own race.
2026-06-25 · 6 min read
The Root and the Remedy
If you have been fighting the behaviour for years and losing, there is a reason. You are likely medicating something. And until that something is found and addressed, the behaviour will keep returning.
2026-06-23 · 5 min read
The Root of the Struggle: Why Many Men Can't Break Free From Addiction
I was addicted to pornography for over a decade. I am not saying that to shock you. I am saying it because if I skip past it, you will read what follows as theory. It is not theory.
2026-06-12 · 5 min read
I Used to Lie About Where I Was From
Whenever people wanted to demean us, they would call us "Nwa Abakaliki." The profiling was so deeply ingrained that I began to wish I was from somewhere else.
2026-06-11 · 5 min read
The Silent Weight: What a Carpool Argument Taught Me About Men's Mental Health
When you see a man raging on the road or arguing over something trivial, it is often not about that incident at all. It is transferred aggression from a heavy burden.
2026-06-04 · 10 min read
Should Boys Be Given Freedom to Choose Their Friends?
The environment a boy grows up in will largely determine the kind of friends he keeps. And the friends he keeps will largely determine the man he becomes.
2026-05-24 · 3 min read
The Boy Before the Man
If the boy is never properly formed, the man may spend the rest of his life bleeding on people who never wounded him.